21 January 2023 - "the 4 R's"

You got to hang with some of my friends again today sweetheart.

They regard themselves as Aunts and Uncles to you and your sister. 

They are ready to share with you both Dunia and Mira!

Aunt Teresa wasn't visible. Uncle Michael was on a flight.

The time that we regularly share together is not only stimulating intellectually & emotionally; it is a source of energy! 

As Dr Waldinger and Dr Schulz notes in their co-authored book "The Good Life", having good relationships is a cornerstone of happiness sweetheart. It's worth a deeper inquiry.

A clever idea they put forward was the following: 

Basic education is referenced as "the 3 R's" (Reading, Writing, & Arithmetic). It should be "the 4 R's", and the fourth one should be Relationships!

I wish you and your sister relationships in the future that evoke the same emotions that are captured here..

..and here

..and even here.

Always remember sweethearts,

relationships require awareness, attention and contribution.

They require you to be a gardener, ensuring that the plants: ..are watered ..get exposure to the sun ..and remain protected against weeds, so that nutrients are properly directed & utilized.

I believe in you.

Whilst sometimes it takes more time than we'd hope.

Remember that with patience, and consistent diligence in the meantime, the future is bright.

💕💕💕